build child and anchestor three from post parent

I’m trying to build a three menu from a custom post type, and wanna build a complet three from the posts children and parents, with all levels both up and down included.

And actually the function wp_list_pages()does that really great, and actually includes all levels that i want.

But i also want to modify the query a little, and exclude some post that fits within a meta query, that i’m using another place like this:

The only problem is that wp_list_pages() don’t support the meta_query, and only looking for at specific meta key and value.

Does anybody have a solution for this, or an idea to archive the goal?